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Ways to help yourself get out of an abusive marriage

TIMESOFINDIA.COM | Last updated on - Jun 24, 2023, 17:00 IST
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Let's take a look at some of the ways

Leaving an abusive marriage is a challenging and complex process that requires careful planning and support. It may be difficult to let go of your past but it is necessary for your mental, emotional and physical well being. Here are five ways to help yourself get out of an abusive marriage:

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Build a support network

Reach out to trusted friends, family members or support organisations who can provide emotional support, guidance, and resources. Having a supportive network can help you feel less isolated and provide assistance during the process of leaving.

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Create a safety plan

Develop a safety plan that outlines steps to protect yourself and your children, if applicable. This plan may include identifying safe spaces, setting up a code word with trusted people, documenting evidence of abuse, and keeping important documents and emergency funds in a secure location.

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Seek professional help

Reach out to professionals who specialise in domestic abuse, such as counsellors, therapists, or social workers. They can provide valuable guidance, help you understand your options, and connect you with local resources, such as shelters, legal aid, and counselling services.

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Understand your legal rights

Familiarise yourself with the legal rights and protections available to you in your specific jurisdiction. Consult with an attorney experienced in family law to understand the legal process of leaving an abusive marriage, including obtaining restraining orders, child custody arrangements, and divorce proceedings.

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Develop a financial plan

Financial independence is crucial for leaving an abusive marriage. Start by assessing your financial situation and gathering information about joint assets, bank accounts, and debts. If possible, you should set aside money in a separate, secure account. Explore employment opportunities, financial assistance programs, or educational resources that can help you become self-sufficient.


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I am a 50-year-old muslim male heart attack survivor from bangalore who has endured 14 years of physical and mental abuse. I now wish to seperate from my wife and her son from previous marriage. Who should I contact for help?
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