Vivek Dahiya gets emotional recalling the first moment with his twin boys; says, “I felt emotionally numb and confused”
Divyanka Tripathi and Vivek Dahiya recently welcomed twin baby boys and the couple is enjoying the parenthood phase. The duo has been sharing glimpses of their new chapter through their YouTube vlogs. In a recent video, Vivek opened up about one of the most emotional moments of his life, the first time he held his twin boys. The Yeh Hai Mohabbatein actor got emotional about becoming a father and also praised his wife.
A woman goes through so much during childbirth
I went inside the OT and met Divyanka, I just held her hand. I checked on her, and saw the babies. Everything was happening so fast, and it was quite overwhelming. During the 20 minutes I spent inside with her, she was given sedation and eventually fell asleep. After that, I moved to the other side and watched the surgery. After witnessing all of it, you realise just how much a woman goes through during childbirth. There is so much blood loss, and it really makes you understand the immense strength of a mother.
We’ve been blessed with twin boys,’ and instantly the whole family burst into happiness and excitement
For months, she carries the baby, deals with physical changes, hormonal fluctuations, and everything that comes with pregnancy. Then, on the day of delivery, she goes through an experience that is incredibly demanding both physically and emotionally. When I came out of the operation theatre, the entire family was waiting outside. Everyone was excited and eager to hear the news from me. But after everything I had just witnessed, I was so overwhelmed that I didn’t even know how to react. I told them, ‘We’ve been blessed with twin boys,’ and instantly the whole family burst into happiness and excitement.
On holding the babies - I didn’t experience that immediate rush of emotion
A little later, the doctors brought the babies outside, and I held them in my arms. People often talk about the overwhelming joy fathers feel when they first see their children, but honestly, I didn’t experience that immediate rush of emotion. At that moment, I felt emotionally numb and confused. So many thoughts ran through my mind. I kept asking myself, ‘Am I ready for this? Am I responsible enough? Will I be able to be a good father?’
After a couple of hours, it finally hit me that I was now a father to two beautiful boys.
It took me some time to process everything. Slowly, over the next 20 to 45 minutes, the emotions started settling in. After a couple of hours, it finally hit me that I was now a father to two beautiful boys.
I went inside the OT and met Divyanka, I just held her hand. I checked on her, and saw the babies. Everything was happening so fast, and it was quite overwhelming. During the 20 minutes I spent inside with her, she was given sedation and eventually fell asleep. After that, I moved to the other side and watched the surgery. After witnessing all of it, you realise just how much a woman goes through during childbirth. There is so much blood loss, and it really makes you understand the immense strength of a mother.
For months, she carries the baby, deals with physical changes, hormonal fluctuations, and everything that comes with pregnancy. Then, on the day of delivery, she goes through an experience that is incredibly demanding both physically and emotionally. When I came out of the operation theatre, the entire family was waiting outside. Everyone was excited and eager to hear the news from me. But after everything I had just witnessed, I was so overwhelmed that I didn’t even know how to react. I told them, ‘We’ve been blessed with twin boys,’ and instantly the whole family burst into happiness and excitement.
On holding the babies - I didn’t experience that immediate rush of emotion
A little later, the doctors brought the babies outside, and I held them in my arms. People often talk about the overwhelming joy fathers feel when they first see their children, but honestly, I didn’t experience that immediate rush of emotion. At that moment, I felt emotionally numb and confused. So many thoughts ran through my mind. I kept asking myself, ‘Am I ready for this? Am I responsible enough? Will I be able to be a good father?’
After a couple of hours, it finally hit me that I was now a father to two beautiful boys.
It took me some time to process everything. Slowly, over the next 20 to 45 minutes, the emotions started settling in. After a couple of hours, it finally hit me that I was now a father to two beautiful boys.
Comments
Be the first to share a thought and become theFirst Voiceof this News Article
end of article
Featured in TV
- Archana goes house hunting to buy a new mansion in Madh Island
- Pranit apologises after ‘vulgar comments’ from his recent comedy show
- Shilpa admits making false sexual harassment allegation against Bhabi Ji producer
- Tejasswi reveals Karan texted her way before they met on BB15
- Shehnaaz on being called cricketer Shubman Gill’s sister
- Taarak Mehta: Dhurandhar inspired track; Babulal-Jameel Jamali Mix-Up
Trending Stories
- 'I had Rs 84 in my account and would bow to the bank every day': Gaurav Gera on struggles
- Ranveer Singh row reaches court: Veteran Producer T P Aggarwal challenges FWICE's non-cooperation directive
- “Sangharsh hum kiye, mehnat vo...”: How Vaibhav Sooryavanshi’s father’s faith shaped his extraordinary success
- 'Dridam' OTT release: When and where to stream crime thriller
- Green Anaconda: The world's largest snake and the sacred creator of the Amazon
- Lalit Modi defends Sushmita Sen against 'gold digger' tag: 'I was like a kept boyfriend'
- MasterChef winner Pankaj Bhadouria raises breast cancer awareness amid diagnosis, says, ‘I was fortunate it was detected early’
- Quote of the day by Emily Dickinson: “That it will never come again is what makes life...”
- Suriya Gifts Batman-Edition Car: Actor rewards GK Vishnu after 'Karuppu' success
- PM Narendra Modi recommends 10 traditional desi drinks that reflect the spirit of "Ek Bharat Shreshtha Bharat"
Photostories
- It’s probably nothing': How self-diagnosis is causing Indians to miss early warning signs of serious illness
- Living in under 500 square feet? These decor tricks can make your home feel twice as big
- Deepika Padukone, Kajol, Alia Bhatt: Bollywood actresses who worked during their pregnancy
- India's most significant hills, and why every traveller should visit them
- Shiva Mantras for mental calmness, positivity, and spiritual growth
- Bollywood’s ‘Dhak Dhak’ girl Madhuri Dixit just delivered another saree slay for the history books, drenched in vibrant pink and yellow hues
- 6 Ancient cliffside settlements that still attract travelers today
- How Harbour Line western extension will change Mumbai’s rail connectivity
- 6 types of high-protein parathas for a healthy and light summer lunch
- 5 countries across the world that are free of snakes
Up Next
Follow Us On Social Media