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Success quote of the day by Paulo Coelho: ‘At a certain point in our lives, we lose control of what’s happening to us…’

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| ETimes.in | Last updated on - Jun 1, 2026, 14:39 IST
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Success quote of the day by Paulo Coelho

Are you at a crossroads, looking back at life and wondering what went wrong? Maybe it’s the career you worked towards, the relationship you hoped would last, or perhaps the goal that never quite came together. Because right now, life doesn’t look the way you imagined it would. And in this uncertainty, you believe this was always your fate.
You are not alone. Most of us have been there. And most of us have made the same mistake: treating life as something already decided by fate. But what if it isn’t? Brazilian author Paulo Coelho’s famous quotes will tell you the role of fate in your life. And it isn’t what you think.

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‘At a certain point in our lives, we lose control of what’s happening to us…’

In his best-selling book, ‘The Alchemist’, Paulo Coelho talks about life and fate. He challenges this very idea that fate controls everything. Through a simple exchange, he questions our belief in fate and control.
The passage reads as follows:​
“What’s the world’s greatest lie?” the boy asked, completely surprised.
"It's this: that at a certain point in our lives, we lose control of what's happening to us, and our lives become controlled by fate. That's the world's greatest lie.”


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We lie to ourselves

When things fall apart, we hand the blame to the universe. It is easy that way. It removes the weight of responsibility, the sting of a bad decision, and the discomfort of having to try again. We tell ourselves it wasn’t meant to be. But Paulo Coelho’s words of wisdom cut right through it. The idea that our lives are controlled by fate is, in his words, the ‘world's greatest lie’. Not because the universe is indifferent. But the fact is that when we believe we have no control, we stop giving the best of ourselves. We stop exercising the control we actually have.

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You are not done, until you believe it

Every person who has ever built something meaningful - a career, a family, a life they're proud of — has stood at the exact crossroads you're standing at now. The only difference is that they didn’t give up. They didn’t blame it on fate. They refused to take the crossroads as the end of the road. The confusion you feel right now is not a sign that you’ve failed. It’s a sign that you have to give your all.

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You still have time to be the author of your story

You are not the supporting character in someone else's story. You are the hero. And you are the author of your own story. That’s the truth Paulo Coelho wants you to know. Authors don't always know where the plot is going. They face blank pages, wrong turns, and chapters they wish they could rewrite. But they keep writing. And they have the power to turn over a new leaf, curate the best twist, and change the entire trajectory. And that begins with being true to yourself. Have the conversation you have been avoiding. Take the step you have been afraid of. Own the mistakes, stop blaming fate, move forward, and give it your best. You will be surprised by what you can achieve!

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