Excuses married men make to the woman they are cheating with
The women who get in a relationships with a married man, can be emotionally manipulated into giving in with a few excuses. Kangana Ranaut, who herself has been on the receiving end, addressed the excuses married men make while they are with the other woman, on Ekta Kapoor’s Lock Upp. Here is a list of a few more excuses that can put you in a dilemma and make you sympathize with the cheating men, in a twisted way.
I was forced to marry her
To make themselves look like a victim and to gain your sympathy and to keep you glued, married men often blame their wives for being the woman they never wanted. He is quite capable of saying that his parents forced him to marry a girl who is too different and someone he cannot connect with.
Only you understand me
If you are the other woman, the married man who is cheating on his wife will always say and establish that only you understand him well and that he lives in an emotional turmoil at home.
She too is having an affair
Not to “demean” you, but married men are capable of lying as well that his wife too is having an extramarital affair so he too wants to be with someone who gives him that sort of happiness and that it is you by “luck”.
She emotionally abuses me
It is possible that it is true but who knows? Men can make their wives look like the worst person ever. They can frame their wives for emotionally abusing them and that he feels suffocated.
I can’t leave her because of the kids
Using the presence of kids to their advantage is also very common. It is possible that a cheating man would tell you that he is unhappy in his marriage but because of the kids, he cannot leave her. He is bound to her only because of them otherwise it is just you.
In conclusion, it is possible that some of these circumstances are actually true and are not just excuses. Be sure of what you are doing. This is a very subjective debate so we are not taking anyone’s side. Please think rationally before taking any drastic action.
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