5 people share how they feel about revealing their deepest secrets to their partners

There are many secrets one wishes to take with them to the grave but eventually flush it out under unique circumstances. Some secrets threaten our relationships with others and so, we are left deciding whether we should come out honest or forget the secret forever. In account of this, we bring to you 6 people who anonymously shared their opinions of revealing the one secret to their partners.

“After the clock struck twelve at night and when my partner is fast asleep, I slowly get up and go into another room to watch porn and masturbate. This secret has been killing me because nor do I have the confidence to go to therapy or know how to stop. I’m scared that if my partner finds out ever, our relationship will end immediately because who wants a person with porn addiction!”

“I don’t like having sex with my wife at all. She is way too frigid yet sensitive and I can’t even tell her that she’s too unresponsive. I even resort to faking orgasms sometimes. Believe it or not, men faking orgasms isn’t a myth.”

“Even though I love babies in general, I dread at the thought of having one! My husband and both our families love babies and of course, would beam at the idea of me getting pregnant. However, I really don’t want to have a baby, and so, I have secretly been on the pills for about eleven months now. My husband doesn’t know nor am I planning to tell him anytime soon. I will have a baby when the time is right for me.”

“I am too scared to admit to my spouse that I almost kissed an ex of ours just before we got engaged. It was a drunken spur of the moment and I truly regret that moment because my ex didn’t mean anything to me. I love my husband and want to be honest with him, but I’m scared that it’s going to drive him apart from me, and the fact that I’ve kept this as a secret for almost three years is worse.”

“I have been secretly keeping my addiction to gambling from my partner. I am drowning in a few debts and it is slowly getting difficult to retain my image as a successful man. I don’t know how to tell my wife about this because she will be shattered. She thinks the money I’m saving up for our new home is safe and secure, whereas it’s not. I gambled it away and I feel extremely guilty. I don’t know what to do.”