Your Privacy is Important to us

We encourage you to review our Terms of Service, and Privacy Policy.

By continuing, you agree to the Terms listed here. In case you want to opt out, please click "Do Not Sell or Share My Personal Information" link in the footer of this page.

Opt out of the sale or sharing of personal information

We won't sell or share your personal information to inform the ads you see. You may still see interest-based ads if your information is sold or shared by other companies or was sold or shared previously.

Continue on TOI App
Open App
Login for better experience!
Login Now
Welcome! to timesofindia.com
TOI INDTOI USTOI GCC
TOI+
  • Home
  • Live
  • TOI Games
  • Top Headlines
  • India
  • City News
  • Photos
  • Business
  • Real Estate
  • Entertainment
  • Movie Reviews
  • Lifestyle
  • Podcasts
  • Elections
  • Web Series
  • Sports
  • TV
  • Food
  • Travel
  • Events
  • World
  • Music
  • Astrology
  • Videos
  • Tech
  • Auto
  • Education
  • Log Out
Follow Us On
Open App
  • ETIMES
  • CINEMA
  • VIDEOS
  • TV
  • LIFESTYLE
  • VISUAL STORIES
  • MUSIC
  • TRAVEL
  • FOOD
  • TRENDING
  • EVENTS
  • THEATRE
  • PHOTOS
  • MOVIE REVIEWS
  • MOVIE LISTINGS
  • HEALTH
  • RELATIONSHIP
  • WEB SERIES
  • BOX OFFICE

​10 habits and behaviours that silently kill a relationship, as per psychology​

TOI Lifestyle Desk
| TIMESOFINDIA.COM | Last updated on - Jul 26, 2024, 23:00 IST
Comments
Share
1/10

​​10 habits and behaviours that silently kill a relationship, as per psychology​


A thriving relationship needs more than just love and dedication; it requires vigilance and effort to avoid actions that can damage the bond between partners. Psychology reveals key behaviours that can gradually weaken a relationship. Here are ten habits and behaviours that can quietly sabotage a partnership:

2/10

​​Poor communication​


Effective communication is essential for a healthy relationship. Avoiding discussions or neglecting to share feelings and concerns can lead to misunderstandings and emotional separation.

3/10

​​Frequent criticism​


While constructive feedback is important, excessive criticism can be harmful. Regularly highlighting faults or mistakes fosters resentment and can erode self-esteem.

4/10

​​Ignoring emotional needs​


Disregarding your partner’s emotional needs can lead to feelings of isolation and unhappiness. Providing emotional support and validation is crucial for a strong connection.

5/10

​​Taking each other for granted​


Not expressing appreciation and gratitude can lead to feelings of being undervalued. Showing regular appreciation and recognizing each other’s contributions helps maintain a robust relationship.

6/10

​​Eroding trust​


Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship. Engaging in deceitful behavior or showing distrust can create insecurity and undermine the relationship’s foundation.

7/10

​​Inconsistent effort​


Relationships need ongoing effort from both partners. Neglecting each other and failing to invest time and energy can lead to disconnection and eventual relationship decline.

8/10

​​Excessive use of technology​


Overuse of smartphones and social media can detract from meaningful face-to-face interactions. Prioritizing technology over personal time can create emotional distance.

9/10

​​Holding onto resentment​


Allowing grudges to accumulate without addressing them can lead to continuous conflict and bitterness. Forgiveness and prompt resolution of grievances are key to maintaining harmony.

10/10

​​Bringing unresolved past issues​


Introducing unresolved issues from past relationships or personal experiences into the current relationship can cause unnecessary stress. Addressing past issues and focusing on the present helps build a healthier connection.

Start a Conversation

Post comment
Featured In lifestyle
  • 6 breathtaking but risky mountain passes in India with a very short travel window
  • “I had to use pepper spray against my dad”: What pushed this 27-year-old to that point is heartbreaking
  • Chinese proverb of the day: “With love water is enough; without love food doesn't satisfy.”
  • America by rail: 5 iconic train journeys in the U.S. every traveller must experience once in a lifetime
  • 8 hill stations travellers should avoid during heavy monsoon in India and their safer alternatives
  • Vaibhav Sooryavanshi Home: Vaibhav Sooryavanshi's modest home in Samastipur, Bihar tells the story of hard work, determination and family sacrifices
  • 7 painful truths about love and relationships people often don't talk about
  • Japanese proverb of the day: “Giving gold coins to a cat; offering something valuable to someone...”
  • US secretary for health Robert Kennedy catches two snakes with bare hands, gets bitten: Is it an act of fearlessness or uncalled-for daring? 3 lessons for children
Photostories
  • ​UK Heatwave 2026: What to know if you’re taking painkillers, insulin, or antidepressants, and safety tips from the MHRA​
  • Is overnight slugging effective for oily Indian skin?
  • Thought of the day inspired by the Bhagavad Gita: "Calmness is not weakness”
  • 10 Sanskrit-inspired baby names that blend tradition with modern charm
  • “I had to use pepper spray against my dad”: What pushed this 27-year-old to that point is heartbreaking
  • From MBBS to movies: Sai Pallavi, Sreeleela and other south actresses chose cinema over medicine
  • Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift date nights at sports games: All about their loud cheers and sequin smiles
  • 5 best summer-friendly fabrics to beat the heat in 2026
  • India’s heatwaves are affecting more than comfort: They are pushing the human body to its limits, doctor recommends urgent precautions
Explore more Stories
  • 7
    6 breathtaking but risky mountain passes in India with a very short travel window
  • 5
    Is overnight slugging effective for oily Indian skin?
  • 4
    Thought of the day inspired by the Bhagavad Gita: "Calmness is not weakness”
  • 11
    10 Sanskrit-inspired baby names that blend tradition with modern charm
  • 6
    5 best summer-friendly fabrics to beat the heat in 2026
Up Next
  • ETimes
  • /
  • Life & Style
  • /
  • Relationships
  • /
  • Love & Sex
  • /
  • ​10 habits and behaviours that silently kill a relationship, as per psychology​
About UsTerms Of UsePrivacy PolicyCookie Policy

Copyright © May 28, 2026, 08.57AM IST Bennett, Coleman & Co. Ltd. All rights reserved. For reprint rights: Times Syndication Service