Beyond Stardom: Suriya and Jyothika on raising their children with a purpose

In an industry that has seen many star children being brought up in the limelight, the couple has taken a remarkably earthy approach to bringing up their children. This is evident in how Suriya and Jyothika have ensured that their children, who are their elder daughter Diya, born in August 2007 and their young son Dev, born in 2010, are brought up with values like privacy and emotional well-being in mind. This comes from the belief that fame should not define their childhood.

Protecting Diya and Dev from the limelight

Right from the start, it has been a conscious decision for Suriya and Jyothika to shield their children, Diya and Dev, from the limelight in such a way that the kids do not have any scope to become noticed or seen on social media platforms. By doing so, they have gifted their children the chance to have their own lives outside of being categorized through their celebrity parents.

Socially conscious children by living with values

By being actively involved with social initiatives such as the Agaram Foundation, the couple ensures that their children are exposed to the concept of compassion. Diya and Dev were brought up by their parents, who are involved in the upliftment, education, and responsibility of society. Suriya and Jyothika, instead of handing down virtues, allow their children to experience empathy the natural way.

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Allowing education and curiosity to lead the way

In contrast to encouraging Diya and Dev into cinema or towards achieving success, learning becomes paramount at home. Parental encouragement here lies in exploring interests sans setting expectations based on their interests or occupations. In this manner, their children overcome baggage regarding legacy, thereby enabling them to develop at their own rate. Through curiosity that beats competition, instilling confidence based on self-discovery happens.

The role of everyday life in teaching humility

Yet in spite of such accomplishments, Suriya and Jyothika have managed to maintain a down-to-earth lifestyle in which their children are also being raised. Aspects such as simplicity in everyday life, proper interaction, and control over emotions are given more importance than lavishness. Diya and Dev learn the lessons from their parents as to how success is considered as an obligation rather than superiority.

The presence that goes beyond duty

Both actors have discussed being mindful of balancing work and family life. Whether it is stepping back from their work or making adjustments, the emotional availability for the children continues to take precedence. For Diya and Dev, it builds a sense of security and trust. The emotional availability of their parents shows them that there is nothing more important than being able to listen, guide, and be connected to them in difficult phases of growth.