Let’s raise more feminist sons
Since we live in a society where women have to “prove” themselves at one point or another, it becomes a bigger responsibility of the men to understand their position of privilege and become a man who contributes to a more equitable society.
While an individual with an open mind may possess the ability to learn how to respect the other gender at a later stage of their life, it is best to teach our sons to become a kind-hearted, non-misogynistic person early-on. On the other hand, if you instill toxic masculinity in him from an early age, chances are your boy won’t become the best boss, father, brother, boyfriend, friend, husband, or son that they could have, or rather should have. Here are some parenting tips to help you raise a son who contributes to making this society more equitable and just.
Building healthy relationships with girls
Teach your son to develop positive friendships with girls from a young age. This could be with their siblings, cousins, and school friends. These friendships and healthy bonds teach your son the right way to treat their friends in particular, and girls or women in general. Everybody loves a gentleman, and qualities like helping others, sharing things, playing together, can help your son see past any stereotypes that teenage boys may have about girls.
Lead by example at home
A big part here is to be played by the father of the child. If dad himself is not quite respectful towards mom, the son may either learn the same or get extra-protective of mom. It is important for your son to witness equal partnerships between men and women, whether it is in your own house or other couples, friends or business partners you may know of. By witnessing equal-partnership in action, your son is more likely to internalize them.
Make him challenge stereotypes
Teach your son to critically evaluate and challenge stereotypes and gender biases. Introduce him to diverse role models, especially those in complete contrast with typical stereotypes. Put him in a kathak class (he may choose to not continue if it does not interest him) or teach him how to cook or braid his little sister’s hair. Raising a feminist son is a dream we all can achieve with some mindful parenting.
Teaching consent is crucial
Teach your son the fundamental concept of consent from a young age. Explain that everyone has personal boundaries and the right to say "no" to any form of physical contact or activity. Emphasize the importance of seeking and respecting clear and enthusiastic consent in everyday interactions as well. This understanding of consent is an essential building block for healthy and respectful relationships.
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Promote empathy in him
You want to raise a man who does not look at things only for his own benefit. When it comes to understanding and respecting the women in his life, you want to raise a son who is empathetic and sensitive. He may not never be able to go through the same hardships as his sister, girlfriend, friend, wife, mother, or daughter, but he can understand and support them.
Foster empathy in your son by engaging in discussions and scenarios that highlight the significance of empathy in building positive relationships. Empathy will help him develop a profound respect for the experiences and challenges faced by women and girls.
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