Shefali Shah revisits ‘Dil Dhadakne Do’ scene to highlight the hidden pain behind emotional eating

Actress Shefali Shah has taken a leaf out of her character Neelam Mehra's journey from the 2015 blockbuster 'Dil Dhadakne Do' to talk about the pain that often drives women towards emotional eating.

Shefali shared a moment from the film on Instagram, in which her character Neelam, who is emotional, is seen eating a chocolate cake after an argument with her husband Kamal Mehra, played by Anil Kapoor.


Taking to the caption section, Shefali wrote: "Many of us know about emotional eating. Most women have, sometime or the other, taken refuge in food. Me too. All those who have been belittled by that moment will know exactly what I'm talking about."

Speaking about the heartwrenching scene, Shefali said it was a mirror to such moments that many women across the globe share, "where a perfectly well put together woman comes undone and falls apart. She is raw, vulnerable, and naked, without any armour of pretence."

"Stripped of her dignity, her respect, and self-esteem. With no value attached to her being. That's when she reaches out to her unwavering support... food."

Shefali added: "Food becomes her respite, her comfort zone. It doesn't ask her to watch her diet, nor does it comment on her growing waistline. It doesn't even expect her to stand on a weighing scale. Food is always there for her, unconditionally."

"When others run her down, it's food that sits next to her and comforts her, making her feel safe, cared for, and satiated."

The actress said that before advising on healthy eating and weight control, "is it possible to stop for a moment and think: "Why has food become her crutch?" "What crater does food fill?" "What is she deprived of that food needs to heal?"

She added: "Before criticising her body, isn't it possible to at least try and understand the complexities of her mind? Seeking the real origin of this anger, pain, and low self-esteem? Acknowledge the chaos rather than rubbish it.

"Can she be supported not by giving her a diet chart, but probably just by being present, listening, and caring? And before telling her, "Have you looked at yourself in the mirror?" face the mirror yourself and introspect on how you may have been a reason for a person's breakdown. And most importantly, correct it."

Shefali shared that that's all her character Neelam Mehra wanted.

"As do many women who hide behind closed doors, stuffing their face with shame and humiliation that others have dumped on them. Crushed by other people's expectations. Swallowing their pride and self-respect that others' insensitivity and inhumanity have dished out to them."

"For which, sadly, they pay the price. Some of you who are reading this may be Neelam Mehra. Can the others just be the ones who hear her out?" Shefali concluded.

Dil Dhadakne Do is directed by Zoya Akhtar. The film stars Anil Kapoor, Shefali Shah, Priyanka Chopra, Ranveer Singh, Anushka Sharma, and Farhan Akhtar with a voice-over narration by Aamir Khan.

The film is about the Mehras, a dysfunctional family who invite their family and friends on a 10-day cruise trip to celebrate the parents' 30th wedding anniversary and later reconcile.